This post was lying in my draft since before Fearless was born. Posting this with a few edits. When I was single and my friends weren't, I used to always wonder, seeing them talk for hours on end on the phone with their respective beloveds, what on earth did they talk for so long and so much. When I asked them, all they said was, "You will understand when its your time". I found my beloved all right but we both never really spoke on the phone. Even when we met face to face, there wasn't really anything much to talk about. And I still wonder when people talk so much on the phone - what do they talk so much? Once in a blue moon, ok, I understand. But everyday, three times a day, for hours together?!! Guess I'll never know. Moving on to the "controversial" topic which this post is actually about. I was part of a joint family in my early childhood and one of the best things I enjoyed was looking after my younger cousins from their infancy to todd